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Safety

What to do if you feel unsafe, how to report someone, and the six rules every member agrees to.

Unsafe right now?

Don't wait in a queue. Report the person and they're blocked instantly.

In danger right now? Call 112

How to report someone

The person you report is never told you said anything.

What reporting looks like

This is the private report in the app. Pick what happened, as many as fit, then send.

Private report

Something felt off.
I’m listening.

They’ll never know you told me. And you won’t have to see them again, they’re blocked the moment you send this, and you won’t cross paths.

What happened

select any

  • Made me uncomfortable
  • Pushy, wouldn’t take no
  • Wasn’t who they said they were
  • Crossed a line physically
  • Threatening or aggressive
  • Something else
Reports are sent from the app, not from this page.

After you report

Community standards

Munshi's Golden Rules.

Six things every member agrees to. He enforces all six.

  1. Treat everyone with respect.

  2. Be the real you, the same person as your photos.

  3. No harassment, no pressure. Ever.

  4. When someone says no to anything, it is over.

  5. First meeting in public, and tell a friend where you will be.

  6. Split the bill, or take turns. Nobody owes anybody here.

"Get banned once and you're done. I don't forget a face, or the one behind it."